Only what God says about you matters. Not co-workers or friends or family or anyone else. Not the naysayers or the flatterers.
Only God knows you perfectly. Only God can claim authorship and ownership. Only God knows your innermost secret thoughts and desires of your heart.
What does God say?
God said when He made you, “It is very good.”
God said when He sent Jesus for you, “I chose the nails for you.”
God says to those of His children, “You are my beloved.”
That’s what matters.