Caroling, Caroling

I did something I haven’t done in a long, long time. Not since college. Maybe even high school. I went caroling, complete with printed sheets of lyrics and everything. Just like it was back in the late 1900s.

It’s been that long.

Back in the day, we’d all gather together and carpool from place to place with our arsenal of festive seasonal classics. I’m sure we were joyful and triumphant in our attempts to pull off the carols and jingles. We probably came closer to making a joyful noise than anything else. I couldn’t tell if the guy next to me was trying to harmonize or was just really off-key, but it didn’t really matter in the end. A good time was had by all.

Tonight, we started off visiting the house of a deacon who very recently had been fighting for his life. It was heartwarming to see him standing in the doorway, a sort of miracle in itself, with his wife wiping away tears of gratitude as we sang loudly and zestily (if not always in tune or in the same key).

Then we headed over to my pastor’s parent’s to do more yuletide crooning. They’ve both had health issues and have had a rough 2022, but they were both pleased and grateful to see us gathered in their front yard, singing about those herald angels.

The last stop was the next-door neighbor who was a founding member of Brentwood Baptist Church along with her late husband. She lost him around this time last year, and I’m sure she was thankful for the company. Christmas is a beautiful time, but sometimes I forget that it’s not the easiest season if you’re missing a loved one.

I snapped a picture of this forlorn little reindeer in one of the yards. Hopefully, someone got a good snapshot of all of us singing in different keys and sometimes different verses at the same time. The Brooklyn Tabernacle Choir we were not.

But I’d do it all again tomorrow night if I could. In fact, I hope this caroling thing becomes another tradition that I can look forward to through the spring, summer and fall.

The Most Reluctant Convert

I did something that I rarely do these days — I went to an actual movie in an actual movie theater. It’s been a while.

Normally, I like to wait for it to hit streaming services because few films are worth paying the current price of movie tickets. But in this case, I made an exception. I wanted to support a faith-based film from a group that I’ve grown to respect as I’ve gotten to know about them, the Fellowship for Performing Arts, led by one Max McLean.

The film is centered around the story of C. S. Lewis’ 10-year journey from atheism to Christianity. Without giving away too much, the narrative device they use to tell the story is unique and compelling. I feel like Mr. McLean masterfully portrayed the title character and the filming locations gave the production a note of authenticity.

But what captivated me most was the way the movie used Lewis’ own words. I believe a lot of the narrative came directly from his autobiography Surprised by Joy. For once, it’s a faith-based film that actually succeeds at being a good film first, and without being preachy or didactic.

It will make you want to dive deep into the writings of C. S. Lewis, both apologetic and fiction, as well as possibly leading you to check out some of writers who inspired him such as George MacDonald and G. K. Chesterton. I can’t recommend it highly enough for anyone who wants a quality movie about the nuances of faith and intellect.

Do Thou for Me

“Do Thou for me, O God the Lord,
Do Thou for me.
I need not toil to find the word
That carefully
Unfolds my prayer and offers it,
My God, to Thee.

It is enough that Thou wilt do,
And wilt not tire,
Wilt lead by cloud, all the night through
By light of fire,
Till Thou has perfected in me
Thy heart’s desire.

For my beloved I will not fear,
Love knows to do
For him, for her, from year to year,
As hitherto.
Whom my heart cherishes are dear
To Thy heart too.

O blessèd be the love that bears
The burden now,
The love that frames our very prayers,
Well knowing how
To coin our gold.  O God the Lord,
Do Thou, Do Thou” (Amy Carmichael).

There are times when we simply don’t know how to pray for a circumstance or a loved one. Try as we may, the words will not come.

I think even then God hears the groans and sighs of our petitions and knows what they mean. He hears the deepest desires of our hearts and knows best how to grant them.

Even when we have words, they aren’t always the best ones. Sometimes, we ask without such a limited point of view. Sometimes we ask selfishly. Sometimes we have too small a view of God and ask too little.

In Jan Karon’s Mitford series, Father Tim Kavanaugh always has his go-to prayer, or “the prayer that never fails,” as he calls it. The prayer goes “Thy will be done.”

You can never go wrong with leaving the matter in God’s hands.

The Perfect Church Service

Jim Cymbala in his book Fresh Wind, Fresh Fire said something that floored me. If you walk away from any church service praising the sermon or the music, then that church has failed. If you’re focusing on the human elements of any worship gathering, the church has not done its job.

Ideally, the response to any worship service isn’t how great we are as a congregation or how great our ministry staff is, but how great is our God. As I read recently, our Sunday meetings can easily slip into Christiak karaoke followed by Ted talks with tithes if we’re not careful.

The key is to allow room for the Holy Spirit to move. Too many churches have programmed their services down to the last second leaving no space for the Holy Spirit to speak to people’s hearts and minds. I for once am not advocating for two hour services, but I do think that sometimes we could be just as attentive to the gentle whisper of the Spirit as we are to the worship schedule.

I also think that we (especialy me) need a shift in our mentality about worship. If our goal is to meet with God, then it shouldn’t matter if the songs were hundred year old hymns or the latest CCLI worship songs. It shouldn’t matter that the pastor made all his points start with the same letter or not.

Our goal is not a great sermon or a deeper worship experience through carefully cultivated worship playlists but to encounter the living and holy God. He’s the true audience of any worship service, not us. Otherwise, it’s just another concert or music event with no more benefit than if we’d stayed home and listened to a Christian Spotify playlist or watched a televised sermon from some famous preacher.

Lord, as we prepare to meet You tomorrow in our places of worship, move in our hearts to yearn for You and You only. Give us eyes to see You and ears to hear from You that You might speak a word to us tomorrow and we could walk away from the gathering different than when we arrived. Speak, Lord, for Your servants are listening. Amen.

Every Weakness Is An Opportunity

“He said to me, ‘My grace is enough for you, because power is made perfect in weakness.’ So I’ll gladly spend my time bragging about my weaknesses so that Christ’s power can rest on me. Therefore, I’m all right with weaknesses, insults, disasters, harassments, and stressful situations for the sake of Christ, because when I’m weak, then I’m strong” (2 Corinthians‬ ‭12:9-10‬ , CEB‬‬).

I’m thankful I don’t have to be strong all the time, or even pretend I’m strong when I’m clearly not. But this flies in the face of the All-American pull yourself up by your own bootstraps mentality.

The familiar motto says that if it is to be, it is up to me. As if I had any power to create or change reality. A better saying might be that if it is to be, He, i.e. God, is up to it.

I’m learning that true strength lies not in stoic gritting your teeth but in surrender and submission to the true power of God. It’s saying, whatever the outcome, I want Your will instead of my own.

In God’s economy, I can overcome not in spite of weakness but because of it. That very weakness is the platform where God’s strength is made manifest the most and shows up best. So why do I try to hide my weaknesses or pretend they don’t exist?

Lord, help me not to try to be strong in my own power but to rest and work from the perfect strength You already provide. I know apart from You I can do nothing but through You I can do all things in the name and power of Christ who is my strength. Be glorified in me today. Amen.

Beautiful Destinations

I love Radnor Lake State Park, and I can attest to the truth that difficult roads do lead to beautiful destinations. Sometimes, the journey itself is worth the price of admission.

My two favorite trails are the hardest to hike, but those are where I get the best views and see the most variety of wildlife. I feel like I’m no longer in Nashville but in a place that feels a bit like Narnia or Middle Earth. I can appreciate God’s creation most there.

As a believer, I know that Jesus never promised easy. He said all things are possible but not easy. I know the way that leads to life is narrow and hard. The road to easy is not the road I want to be on. It may be paved with good intentions but the end is not good.

The older I get, the more I know that the only road I want to walk is the road where Jesus has gone before and where He is leading me. I’d rather be in the center of God’s will than be rich and famous without God.

I’m thankful that I already know my final destination. I know that the best is truly yet to come because that’s what Jesus promised. In the meantime, I can learn to be content wherever I am and appreciate what I already have instead of striving to be something else or somewhere else.

A Prayer of Surrender

Lord, I thank You that if I submit to You and resist the devil, he will flee from me. Please show me any areas where I am trying to be lord of my own life. I surrender to You. Make me more like You today than I was yesterday. Be glorified in me today and every day. Amen..

Only in America

I thought this was clever:

“The World Cup and the 250th anniversary of America’s birthday has reminded us of how unique our country is. For example…

  1. Only in America can a pizza get to your house faster than an ambulance.
  2. Only in America are there handicap parking places in front of a skating rink.
  3. Only in America do drugstores make the sick walk all the way to the back of the store to get their prescriptions while healthy people can buy cigarettes at the front.
  4. Only in America do people order double cheeseburgers, large fries, and a diet coke.
  5. Only in America do we leave cars worth thousands of dollars in the driveway and put junk in the garage . . . Hello!
  6. Only in America do we have answering machines to screen calls and have call waiting so we won’t miss a call from someone we didn’t want to talk to in the first place.
  7. Only in America do we buy hot dogs in packages of ten and buns in packages of eight.”

Leaving the Answers

“Lord, all that I long for is known to you,
my sighing is no secret from you…
I put my trust in you, and leave you to answer for me’ (Elizabeth Elliott).

Betty Elliott was a wise woman, not because of any inherent intelligence or moral superiority but because she knew where to go to find wisdom.

Proverbs 9:10 says “The fear of Yahweh is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding” (Proverbs 9:10, LSB).

Wisdom starts not from a phobia about God and who He is but a reverent awe of Him and a right understanding of ourselves. We don’t cringe in fear but bow in adoration.

James 1:5 says, “But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and [a]without reproach, and it will be given to him” (James 1:5, LSB).

It seems easy but often the last place we look for wisdom is the first place we’re commanded to seek it. We should never be afraid to ask God for what we need because He’s never stingy or miserly but always gives generously what we need exactly when we need it.

Ultimately, Elizabeth Elliott found that all her longing found its ultimate fulfillment in God alone. She knew that no desire for marriage or family or purpose superseded her great need for God to guide and direct her path.

Her life wasn’t easy or simple, but her God was (and is) faithful to His children who are so often prone to wander. May we never fail to come boldly before the throne of grace in our time of need — which if we’re honest, is all the time.

Trusting in the Dark

“What is darkness? Darkness is merely the absence of light. The only way there can be darkness is for the light to be withdrawn. Who is the light? God is the light. But sometimes God may just back off and leave His servant in darkness. If you read biographies of great Christians, almost all of them will talk about something they call the dark night of the soul. They’re serving God, they’re loving God, and then things come, perplexities they can’t understand.

There’s going to come a time when all your theology will go upside down. There will be a time when you won’t understand where God is and you’re going to be in such darkness you won’t see your hand in front of your face. What do you do then? Isaiah says stay upon your God; trust Him” (Dr. Adrian Rogers).

As Corrie ten Boom once said. If you’re on a train and it goes through a dark tunnel, you don’t jump off but stay on and trust the conductor. You hold on to hope for a light at the end of that tunnel because the conductor has been there before.

In Psalm 23, I’m still amazed that the valley of the shadow of death is where King David shifts from referring to the Lord as He and changes to using the pronoun You. That’s where faith becomes real and personal.

The dark is where the precious secrets are like diamonds or gold down in a deep mine. That’s where God speaks a word to you for you to share with others once you find daylight again. That’s where God THE Shepherd becomes God YOUR Shepherd.

Keep stayed on the Lord. Trust Him in the dark and he won’t fail. He will keep you in His care. You will be safe. Amen.

A Beautiful Prayer

This one is from Henri Nouwen:

“Dear Lord, you have sent me into this world to preach your word. So often the problems of the world seem so complex and intricate that your word strikes me as embarrassingly simple. Many times I feel tongue-tied in the company of people who are dealing with the world’s social and economic problems.

But you, O Lord, said, ‘Be clever as serpents and innocent as doves.’ Let me retain innocence and simplicity in the midst of this complex world. I realize that I have to be informed, that I have to study the many aspects of the problems facing the world, and that I have to try to understand as well as possible the dynamics of our contemporary society. But what really counts is that all this information, knowledge, and insight allows me to speak more clearly and unambiguously your truthful word. Do not allow evil powers to seduce me with the complexities of the world’s problems, but give me strength to think clearly, speak freely, and act boldly in your service. Give me the courage to show the dove in a world so full of serpents” (Henri Nouwen).

Above all, help us never to be ashamed to speak Your name, Jesus. It is still the only name with the power to save from the only One who is the only Way, the only Truth, and the only Life. Amen.

The Soil of Sacrifice

“You see, true love germinates in the soil of sacrifice, sprouts in the garden of surrender and matures in a matrimony of servanthood.  Love isn’t love until it has cost you something to give it away” Josh Hopwood).

I see a lot of so-called love paraded around on social media, but in reality it’s just lust masquerading as love. Lust only wants to take and consume, while love longs to give and bless.

If you want the ultimate definition of love, look at Jesus. Specifically look at Philippians 2:5-11. That is sacrificial love at its absolute best. In fact, we only love at all because He first loved us and completely gave of Himself for us.

The best way to show love is not in gratifying your own desires. Love shows up best in serving others, especially those who have no way of repaying and might not even be able to show appreciation for your efforts. But love gives anyway.

The Bible says that God causes it to rain on the just and the unjust. He provides for those who will turn around and slander His name and even go so far as to deny His reality. That’s what love looks like.

Lord, help us to love others as You have loved us. Help us to love ourselves the way You love us. Most of all, help us to remember that the only things we can take with us when we die are what we’ve given away. Amen.