Caroling, Caroling

I did something I haven’t done in a long, long time. Not since college. Maybe even high school. I went caroling, complete with printed sheets of lyrics and everything. Just like it was back in the late 1900s.

It’s been that long.

Back in the day, we’d all gather together and carpool from place to place with our arsenal of festive seasonal classics. I’m sure we were joyful and triumphant in our attempts to pull off the carols and jingles. We probably came closer to making a joyful noise than anything else. I couldn’t tell if the guy next to me was trying to harmonize or was just really off-key, but it didn’t really matter in the end. A good time was had by all.

Tonight, we started off visiting the house of a deacon who very recently had been fighting for his life. It was heartwarming to see him standing in the doorway, a sort of miracle in itself, with his wife wiping away tears of gratitude as we sang loudly and zestily (if not always in tune or in the same key).

Then we headed over to my pastor’s parent’s to do more yuletide crooning. They’ve both had health issues and have had a rough 2022, but they were both pleased and grateful to see us gathered in their front yard, singing about those herald angels.

The last stop was the next-door neighbor who was a founding member of Brentwood Baptist Church along with her late husband. She lost him around this time last year, and I’m sure she was thankful for the company. Christmas is a beautiful time, but sometimes I forget that it’s not the easiest season if you’re missing a loved one.

I snapped a picture of this forlorn little reindeer in one of the yards. Hopefully, someone got a good snapshot of all of us singing in different keys and sometimes different verses at the same time. The Brooklyn Tabernacle Choir we were not.

But I’d do it all again tomorrow night if I could. In fact, I hope this caroling thing becomes another tradition that I can look forward to through the spring, summer and fall.

The Most Reluctant Convert

I did something that I rarely do these days — I went to an actual movie in an actual movie theater. It’s been a while.

Normally, I like to wait for it to hit streaming services because few films are worth paying the current price of movie tickets. But in this case, I made an exception. I wanted to support a faith-based film from a group that I’ve grown to respect as I’ve gotten to know about them, the Fellowship for Performing Arts, led by one Max McLean.

The film is centered around the story of C. S. Lewis’ 10-year journey from atheism to Christianity. Without giving away too much, the narrative device they use to tell the story is unique and compelling. I feel like Mr. McLean masterfully portrayed the title character and the filming locations gave the production a note of authenticity.

But what captivated me most was the way the movie used Lewis’ own words. I believe a lot of the narrative came directly from his autobiography Surprised by Joy. For once, it’s a faith-based film that actually succeeds at being a good film first, and without being preachy or didactic.

It will make you want to dive deep into the writings of C. S. Lewis, both apologetic and fiction, as well as possibly leading you to check out some of writers who inspired him such as George MacDonald and G. K. Chesterton. I can’t recommend it highly enough for anyone who wants a quality movie about the nuances of faith and intellect.

Do Thou for Me

“Do Thou for me, O God the Lord,
Do Thou for me.
I need not toil to find the word
That carefully
Unfolds my prayer and offers it,
My God, to Thee.

It is enough that Thou wilt do,
And wilt not tire,
Wilt lead by cloud, all the night through
By light of fire,
Till Thou has perfected in me
Thy heart’s desire.

For my beloved I will not fear,
Love knows to do
For him, for her, from year to year,
As hitherto.
Whom my heart cherishes are dear
To Thy heart too.

O blessèd be the love that bears
The burden now,
The love that frames our very prayers,
Well knowing how
To coin our gold.  O God the Lord,
Do Thou, Do Thou” (Amy Carmichael).

There are times when we simply don’t know how to pray for a circumstance or a loved one. Try as we may, the words will not come.

I think even then God hears the groans and sighs of our petitions and knows what they mean. He hears the deepest desires of our hearts and knows best how to grant them.

Even when we have words, they aren’t always the best ones. Sometimes, we ask without such a limited point of view. Sometimes we ask selfishly. Sometimes we have too small a view of God and ask too little.

In Jan Karon’s Mitford series, Father Tim Kavanaugh always has his go-to prayer, or “the prayer that never fails,” as he calls it. The prayer goes “Thy will be done.”

You can never go wrong with leaving the matter in God’s hands.

A Little More Encouragement

“So encourage each other and build each other up, just as you are already doing” (1 Thes. 5:11, NLT).

That’s what we need. More encouragement. Lately, there’s been too much division and bickering, especially on social media. Too many people think it’s their God-given duty to correct everyone else about everything else. Too many are pointing fingers at others while ignoring their own faults and sins.

Maybe if we went out of our way to lift each other up more, it might make a difference. Perhaps if we were to spend at least as much time encouraging as criticizing, we’d be more in line with Paul’s admonition to the Thessalonians.

There’s something special about when someone goes out of their way to pay you a compliment or to give an encouraging word. Sometimes, it’s made the difference between me having a bad day and having a good day. Plus, it costs so very little to speak blessings over someone else.

I’n not saying we should never rebuke or correct others. There’s a place for discernment and discipline, but I think it should be balanced by pointing out the positives in others. I seem to remember something called a compliment sandwich where you offer a word of correction but place it between two positive statements about the person.

Lord, I’m thankful that the One who knows me most and has the most right to condemn me instead has shown me grace time after time when I least deserved it. Help me and all others who follow Jesus to be as willing to show the same grace that we have ourselves received. Amen.

Inside the Will of God

“Outside the will of God, there’s nothing I want. Inside the will of God, there’s nothing I fear” (A. W. Tozer).

A. W. Tozer nailed it. Outside of the will of God, there’s nothing I want. What could I possibly gain that would be worth losing my soul in the process? What could be worth sacrificing a relationship with the One who created me and who knows me best?

I’m not saying I could lose my salvation. I am saying that if I had chosen everything that this world could possibly offer instead of God, I’d have nothing. If I have God and nothing else, I still have everything.

Inside the will of God, there’s nothing I fear. What could anyone do to me other than take my life and send me directly into the presence of God? Who could possibly harm me if the Father’s hand is on me? If God allows it, then God will bring something out of it that will be way better than any amount of hardship or suffering I endure.

The will of God is a win-win. There’s no possible way to lose for following Jesus. As Jim Elliott famously said, he is no fool who gives up what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose. The older I get, the more I find that to be true. And Jim proved his own quote true by giving up his own life for the gospel at the young age of 28 and leaving behind a legacy that is still speaking.

Lord, I want nothing more and nothing less than Your will. I want nothing outside Your will. Inside Your will, I have absolutely nothing to fear and absolutely everything to gain. You are worth it, no matter the cost. Amen.

God Uses Broken Things

“For several centuries, a village was known for its exquisite and fragile porcelain. Especially striking were its urns, which were as high as tables and as wide as chairs. They were admired around the globe for their strong form and delicate beauty. Legend has it that when each urn was finished, there was one final step. The artist broke it and then put it back together with gold filigree. An ordinary urn was then transformed into a priceless work of art. What seemed finished wasn’t complete until it was broken. 

Men throw broken things away. But God never uses anything until He first breaks it: ‘A broken and a contrite heart—These, O God, You will not despise’ (Psalm 51:17). God is trying to break your life for eternal good” (Adrian Rogers).

If you feel like you’re broken, that means that God is ready to use You in ways You could never imagine. I love that God uses what other people throw away. That means that no life is ever wasted if given to God — He redeems everything. Also, it means it’s never too late and no one is ever too far gone for God to use.

Sometimes what seems like the end of the world is really God starting something new in your life. What seemed like the end for the disciples as they watched Jesus sealed in the tomb was God about to raise Him from the dead and literally change the course of human history forever. Trust God and praise Him in the midst of Your brokenness. Something beautiful is about to be born in you.

A Different Take on Galatians

“It is obvious what kind of life develops out of trying to get your own way all the time: repetitive, loveless, cheap sex; a stinking accumulation of mental and emotional garbage; frenzied and joyless grabs for happiness; trinket gods; magic-show religion; paranoid loneliness; cutthroat competition; all-consuming-yet-never-satisfied wants; a brutal temper; an impotence to love or be loved; divided homes and divided lives; small-minded and lopsided pursuits; the vicious habit of depersonalizing everyone into a rival; uncontrolled and uncontrollable addictions; ugly parodies of community. I could go on.

This isn’t the first time I have warned you, you know. If you use your freedom this way, you will not inherit God’s kingdom.

But what happens when we live God’s way? He brings gifts into our lives, much the same way that fruit appears in an orchard—things like affection for others, exuberance about life, serenity. We develop a willingness to stick with things, a sense of compassion in the heart, and a conviction that a basic holiness permeates things and people. We find ourselves involved in loyal commitments, not needing to force our way in life, able to marshal and direct our energies wisely” (Galatians 5:19-23, The Message).

I’m not always a fan of The Message, but sometimes it gets the nuances of a passage better than any traditional translation. Sometimes, it’s just weird. But this time I think Eugene Peterson nailed it.

Hey June

Admit it. You didn’t just read those words. You sang them. I know I did (at least in my head). But can anyone pinch me because when did June get here and where did April and May go?

In less than three weeks, we’ll hit the day with the most daylight in it (which also happens to be the official first day of summer). After that, the countdown to Christmas is on. Well, at least for me it is. Most of you have other anniversaries and holidays on your radar, but since I am afflicted with Obsessive Christmas Disorder, then that’s where I’m focusing.

I keep thinking a lot about what my boss at my old job used to say: any day without a toe tag is a good day. I like it, but I think it’s not necessarily all good. For those who belong to Jesus, to live is Christ and to die is gain. It’s a win-win. So while not having a toe tag is a good day, maybe the day you and I get our toe tags might be sad for some, but it will be our best day ever.

Also, I want to apologize to any olden people for making fun of you when I was a kid when you said that time flies. I get it now. It does. The older I get, the faster it goes. At the same time, the older I get, the more I realize the less I need to be content. You know the old saying that you can’t take your toys and possessions with you when you die. There are no hearses pulling U-Hauls that I’ve seen lately.

Hello, June! Try not to be too hot and humid right away. I like to dip my foot in the shallow end of summer before I jump in. Send more breezes because it helps me sweat less and everyone around me in the vicinity of my armpits appreciates that. Oh, and less bugs this year would be great. Thanks!

Hymn Night 2026

The main campus of my church hosted a hymn night. It was better than advertised and even better than I thought it would be going in. Of course, they sang all the classic hymns that I loved growing up and a few newer ones (including a couple that I wasn’t familiar with before tonight).

The highlight was when they brought out Bill Gaither to talk about one of the songs his wife had written back in the day. I have to say he’s very spry for a 90-year old. I hope I’m doing half as well as he is when I get to be that age (unless Jesus comes back, then it won’t matter).

Throw in the Gaither Vocal Band and Larry Gatlin for a couple of songs, and calling it a great night would be something of an understatement. But the best part of the night for me was still those old hymns that still speak even though the writers have long since graduated to heaven.

One song that struck me forcibly with the power of the lyrics was called “I Then Shall Live.” It felt like an old hymn, but apparently isn’t since Gloria Gaither co-wrote the lyrics:

“I then shall live as one who’s been forgiven.
I’ll walk with joy to know my debts are paid.
I know my name is clear before my Father; 
I am His child and I am not afraid.
So, greatly pardoned, I’ll forgive my brother;
The law of love I gladly will obey.

I then shall live as one who’s learned compassion.
I’ve been so loved, that I’ll risk loving too.
I know how fear builds walls instead of bridges;
I’ll dare to see another’s point of view.
And when relationships demand commitment,
Then I’ll be there to care and follow through.

Your Kingdom come around and through and in me;
Your power and glory, let them shine through me.
Your Hallowed Name, O may I bear with honor,
And may Your living Kingdom come in me.
The Bread of Life, O may I share with honor,
And may You feed a hungry world through me.

Amen, Amen, Amen” (David Phelps / Dp / Gloria L Gaither)

The Smallest Thing

“Readiness for God means that we are prepared to do the smallest thing or the largest thing—it makes no difference. It means we have no choice in what we want to do, but that whatever God’s plans may be, we are there and ready” (Oswald Chambers, My Utmost for His Highest).

Many of us miss God’s call because we’re waiting for the big assignment or the earth-shaking reveal when God is calling us to be faithful in small ways and obedient in the details. We’re looking for the Red Sea and the burning bush when God wants us to follow Him daily in the desert.

Whatever God’s question, my answer should always be YES. I do think that God sometimes withholds the bigger calling until He sees that we’re faithful in the everyday minutiae. Sometimes that looks like getting up, showing up, and never giving up, no matter how little anything seems to change.

When God calls us, the answer isn’t “I’ll be faithful if You promise to promote me later” or “I’ll obey but only if You put me into something that pays more later” or “I’ll go wherever as long as I can have a larger influence.” It’s a YES with no conditions or parameters that God must meet. We owe God everything. He owes us nothing.

Lord, help us to be faithful to You, no matter how small or menial the assignment. Give us eyes to see that everything we do is worship because everything done for the love of You declares Your great worth, even if we’re the only ones to get to see the glory. Thank You for calling us and inviting us into serving You, which none of us deserves. You alone are worth it. Amen.

Watch Your Thoughts

“Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.” (Frank Outlaw)

The problem with a lot of modern Christianity, particularly the American variety, is that most people think that you automatically drift toward holiness aside from any intentionality or effort. True, you don’t work for your salvation, but the Bible commands us to work out our salvation. Holiness takes discipline and effort; that’s why there are so many professing Christians and so few disciples.

I’m guilty for thinking that I will become holier the longer I’m saved simply because I’m saved. I think a lot of us are. We forget that for every godly saint, there are 10 older believers who are just as immature in their faith as they were on day one of their salvation. A lot of people who call themselves believers know very little about what they believe and even less about the Bible.

But we (me included) are called to a higher standard. If we truly live out what we believe and strive for biblical holiness, three things will happen: 1) People will call us extreme and radical, even those inside the Church who are comfortable in their lukewarmness. 2) Many will hate us as they hated Jesus for speaking the trust and not compromising with sin. 3) Some will be drawn to the real holiness they see instead of the pretend piety they see most of the time that actually puts people off from the faith.

Lord, help us to love You more than we love anything else in the world. Help us to follow You instead of following the world’s idea of faith. Remind us how Your disciples rejoiced when they were counted worthy of suffering for Your name because that means that people are paying attention. Help us to be lights to a dark world and salt to a decaying culture. Amen.

Prophetic Words

That’s pretty much where we are, folks. I get that we had to give up meeting corporately during the pandemic because of health concerns. But here we are in 2026, and there is almost no excuse not to gather together weekly for worship. If your immune system is compromised, I get staying home for virtual service, but I believe that we as believers should make every effort to gather together in person.

Hebrews 10:25 says, “And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near” (Heb. 10:25, NLT).

That’s not something to take into consideration. That’s a command. Don’t neglect meeting together. There’s something powerful that happens when two or more are gathered in the same place that doesn’t happen when we join over an internet connection. We were never supposed to the life of faith alone but always in the context of community.

Lone Ranger Christians are in more danger of falling into temptation and sin. They’re more prone to sliding into error and false teaching. They’re missing out on contributing to the body of Christ by bringing their unique gifts and talents, so not only do they suffer but so does the whole body.

Sometimes, weather or unforeseen circumstances will keep us from meeting together, but those should always be the rare exceptions rather than the rule. I believe God honors those who honor His bride, the Church. We do that when we make it a priority to worship in person and stay in community.

Why We Need Each Other (from 2010)

This is another pre-Wordpress post. I believe I wrote this as a Facebook note (remember those?) back in 2010:

I think one of the reasons that community is so important is that it enlarges our view of God. I like to think that each of us carry puzzle pieces of what God is like. Each has a few pieces that reveal a limited aspect of God. When you get to know me, you add more pieces to your puzzle and your view of God gets bigger and clearer. When I get to know you, the same happens for me.

The more people whose lives we invest in, the more pieces and the bigger our view of God becomes and the more the pieces fall into place and connect into more coherent forms.

I truly believe that we grow as believers and our knowledge of God increases only in the context of community, where we share with each other and serve one another in love. There’s no way I can figuire out God on my own, apart from other believers.

There it is. That’s my thought for the day. Hope it helps.