Just yes. Don’t spend all your time trying to be what others want you to be (or what you perceive that others want you to be).
Don’t follow lockstep into a political party or an ideology or a platform or just about any other world system that ends with -ology.
Follow Jesus. He promised to make each one of His followers their true selves with a purpose and a vision that’s unique to them and them only.
Don’t conform. Be transformed.