There is no rule that limits the amount of peanut butter that you should put on your bread. There’s also no rule that says that you have to choose to like either crunchy or smooth peanut butter. I happen to like both.
There’s no rule that say that you must conform to a pattern of life by a certain age, i.e. married by 25, kids by 30, etc. God’s timetable for you is your own and nobody else’s. Comparison is the thief of joy, and it keeps you from appreciating all that God is doing in YOUR life, not somebody else’s.
You will always be a second-rate version of whoever is out there that you try to imitate. You will be a first-rate version of yourself if you only try to be yourself as much as possible.
By the way, my preferred peanut butter is The Bee’s Knees by Peanut Butter & Company. They sell it at The Fresh Market if you’re interested.