Pros and Cons for Today

I’m trying something new, so it may or may not work. This is purely for entertainment purposes. I’m listing all the pros and cons of this day, July 2, 2018:

Pro: I woke up today.

Con: Today was Monday.

Pro: I was able to get my walking in on my lunch break and after work, so I got my 10,000+ steps in.

Con: It was Sweat-palooza with all the heat and extreme humidity.

Pro: I treated myself to a triple mocha frappucino from Starbucks that was delightful and delicious.

Con: It was over way too soon and I was sad.

Pro: With a holiday falling in the middle of the week, I essentially get two Fridays.

Con: I still have to wake up at 5 am tomorrow and manage to survive until that first cup of coffee.

All in all, there were way more pros than cons. As I’ve learned and continue to be reminded, attitude and perspective go a long way toward changing your outlook.

I still believe that giving thanks instead of counting your cons is the best way to live. Gratitude makes the miracles happen.

 

Have Patience

I’m not sure that I’ve got this life thing figured out just yet. I’m beginning to understand that most of us don’t, and a lot that say they do are lying.

Sometimes it feels like just when you’ve gotten one part of your life down, everything changes and you have to start all over again. Or maybe you look back at that glorious period when you had all your life figured out and say, “Well, that was a nice 45 seconds.”

I don’t have to understand it all. I only have to trust in the God who is in charge of it all. I don’t have to even understand God completely to trust Him, but I can trust in what I know to be true and what I’ve seen and heard up till now.

That’s it. Trusting from one moment to the next and being content to not have all the answers, but trusting in the One who does.

 

Happy Gotcha Day!

Today marks exactly one year since I went to the Williamson Animal Shelter and picked out a tiny little tortie. Or more accurately, she picked me, meowing pitifully and stretching out her little paw toward me from her cage.

I still believe that no cat could ever replace Lucy, my beloved first pet, but Peanut is her own gentle, sweet, hyper, often hilarious self. What sets her apart most is her one peanut butter colored foot that looks out of place but only serves to add to her charm.

She’s a lot better off than when she was rescued off I-65 and brought to the shelter. I’m a lot better off since she decided that I was to be her forever human.

Stop the Insanity!

“Stop trying to protect, to rescue, to judge, to manage the lives around you . . remember that the lives of others are not your business. They are their business. They are God’s business . . . even your own life is not your business. It also is God’s business. Leave it to God. It is an astonishing thought. It can become a life-transforming thought . . . unclench the fists of your spirit and take it easy . . . What deadens us most to God’s presence within us, I think, is the inner dialogue that we are continuously engaged in with ourselves, the endless chatter of human thought. I suspect that there is nothing more crucial to true spiritual comfort . . . than being able from time to time to stop that chatter . . . ” (Frederick Buechner, Telling Secrets).

I suspect that this little gem of a quote will hit home with many of you as it did with me.

I quite agree that being able to still the inner dialogue and the endless chatter of human thought to recognize God’s presence and find true peace. Sometimes, that’s easier said than done.

 

From Jon Pertwee to Tom Baker

I periodically like to keep you all updated on my continuing quest to watch all of the Classic Doctor Who episodes (or as many still survive).

I am officially up to the 4th Doctor (otherwise known as Tom Baker). Apparently, he is one of the most well-loved and respected of all the incarnations of the Doctor. Certainly, he seems to have set the standard by which all other Doctors are measured.

Anyway, I saw the actual regeneration where Jon Pertwee transformed into Tom Baker. I’m sure at the time there was a little sadness at the end of an era with such a familiar actor playing the Doctor, as well as a little hesitancy and trepidation over the new incarnation. Change is always a little scary.

I think in my own life, I’m a big talker when it comes to how much I’m ready for change. Until it happens, then I’m wanting to go back to the old and familiar and comfortable. My joke is that the only change I like is made of metal and has pictures of dead presidents on it.

Sometimes, familiar and comfortable can turn into staleness and stagnation. Sometimes, we all need a little nudge out of the proverbial nest toward growth and maturity.

As for Tom Baker, so far, so good.

 

 

Praying vs. Panicking

“Don’t be anxious about things; instead, pray. Pray about everything. He longs to hear your requests, so talk to God about your needs and be thankful for what has come. And know that the peace of God (a peace that is beyond any and all of our human understanding) will stand watch over your hearts and minds in Jesus, the Anointed One” (Philippians 4:6-7, The Voice).

I don’t know about you, but I have my moments of anxiety as well as anyone else. For me, anxiety tends to take me to a future of what ifs and what might happens, where I envision all sorts of scenarios.

I’ve noticed that my anxious thoughts take me to a future with no God in it. I find it’s just me having to solve all my own problems, and none of my scenarios play out very well. Most of what I dread and fear in the future never comes remotely close to happening, yet that never seems to stop the obsessing when anxiety strikes.

The secret is to take every moment of anxiety and turn it into an occasion for prayer. After all, prayer is really about reminding you and me who’s really in charge. When we give thanks for God’s mercies in the past, we find that we can hold fast to the same God in the future to be as faithful.

And that peace? It really does defy all human understanding. Once you’ve decided that you’re not the ruler of your own life and destiny, you let go trying to control every possible outcome and find that God is more than able to take your place. That’s very freeing.

I was reminded yesterday of the truth that when storms and troubles come, you don’t tell God how big your storm is, you tell your storm how big your God is.

 

 

Further Kairos Takeaways

“Jesus continued from there toward Jerusalem and came to another village. Martha, a resident of that village, welcomed Jesus into her home. Her sister, Mary, went and sat at Jesus’ feet, listening to Him teach. Meanwhile Martha was anxious about all the hospitality arrangements.

Martha (interrupting Jesus): Lord, why don’t You care that my sister is leaving me to do all the work by myself? Tell her to get over here and help me.

Jesus: Oh Martha, Martha, you are so anxious and concerned about a million details, but really, only one thing matters. Mary has chosen that one thing, and I won’t take it away from her” (Luke 10:38-42).

Tonight’s guest speaker, Jason Cook, spoke from Luke 10:38-42 about choosing the better way. In this culture where we idolize busyness and being on the go non-stop, we look to Martha as having chosen rightly.

Yet Jesus sees Mary doing nothing but sitting at His feet and listening as having chosen the better way. Instead of doing a million things for Jesus, she’s chosen to be with Jesus.

It’s very easy to get so caught up in serving Jesus that we forget to spend time with Him. Christianity can become so much about activities and rituals that  we forget what it’s really all about.

Jesus is saying two words that have almost become anathema in this day and age– SLOW DOWN. Stop and listen. Rest in My presence and learn from Me.

Sometimes, we need to stop talking at God, running down our laundry lists of requests and petitions, be still and listen.

There’s a time for asking, but there’s also a time for adoration. There’s the command to keep asking, keep seeking, and keep knocking, but there’s also the command to be still.

Maybe today we can choose the better way, if only for a few moments, to hear the voice of Jesus over all the other voices clamoring for our attention.

 

Make Haste to Be Kind

“Life is short and we have never too much time for gladdening the hearts of those who are traveling the dark journey with us. Oh, be swift to love, make haste to be kind!” (Henri Amiel, 1821-1881)

Wise words. Make haste to be kind.

Abba’s children are called to extend grace and kindness not just to those who think like we do, but also to those who don’t.

Abba Father is kind and merciful and patient toward those who rebel against Him, not wishing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance.

We should do the same.

In the mean time, let us encourage and gladden each other’s hearts as we travel through much darkness. May we be the light of the world that Jesus told us to be to show others the way toward God’s salvation.

 

Another Week Up Ahead

“Lord, You sure do tell it like it is — You said in this world, we will have trouble, hard weeks, heartbreak.
You said straight up that we’d have to carry a cross, and You said ‘we must go through many hardships to enter the kingdom of God.’ (Acts14:22)
But You said this in the midst of the madness:
‘But take heart!’
We take heart —
that You have our heart,
that You have our hand,
that You are our peace,
& that You have overcome the world & the dark and whatever overwhelms us.
We take heart — we take Your heart
and we pour a brave and willing love like Yours
over all the open wounds of the world…
that the world may even now
take hope.

In the name of Jesus, the only One who loved us to death
and back to the real & forever life….
Amen.
#RealHonestPrayers#SharingPrayerTogether

(Ann Voskamp).

If I’m honest, I have to confess that I’m not highly excited about the prospect of another week looming ahead. I’m not jumping for joy at the thought of waking up at 5 am for 5 days straight.

But I know that good things are ahead as well as the unpleasant and the annoying. I know that despite whatever my fears and anxieties tell me, that Jesus will be there and if I fear God, there isn’t anything or anyone else that I need fear.

I don’t mean me going around shaking in terror that God’s going to strike me down with a lightening bolt. I mean me having a healthy, reverential respect for God that helps me remember who’s in charge of the universe (God) and who’s not (me).

Plus, there will be coffee, which is always a nice perk for having to be grown up and do grown up things. See, it’s not all bad, right?

My Nerd Status is Official

I had a good night. I started out with dinner at Elliston Place Soda Shop with mom. That was a semi-bucket list trip, and it was well worth the effort. The place has been around since 1939, and the food was fantastic.

We went next door to a sort of consignment/used clothing store where I picked up this gem of a t-shirt for $8. I’m making my way through the Classic Doctor Who episodes, and I feel this cements my status as an official Whovian. Or maybe just a nerd. I’m not really sure on the terminology.

Whatever it is, I’m proud to be a wearer of this t-shirt. I’m sure the Doctor would approve.