I keep thinking about something I heard in a Kairos sermon. Basically, the gist is that the best gift you can give to a loved one, more than presents, is presence.
More than going to a store and picking up something that may or may not end up being regifted or donated to Goodwill, maybe the best gift you can give is you. Your time. Your attention.
Who in your life needs to see your actual face (and not just your profile picture)? Who needs a reminder that you haven’t forgotten them?
Is it a relative? Is it a friend?
You can send a Facebook post or a text, but the best is to have a face-to-face conversation, one in which you aren’t distracted by your phone or tablet, but where you fully engage the other person and actually listen to what they are saying.
Don’t wait. Don’t put it off. Not to be morbid, but you truly never know when it will be too late to have that conversation.
That’s really all I have. Maybe it’s something I need to do myself. Maybe I can find someone I haven’t seen in a while and try to reconnect.
Oh, and may all your traffic lights be green and all your checkout lines be short. Amen.