Gratitude Revisited for the Umpteenth Time

“Give thanks to God no matter what circumstances you find yourself in. This is God’s will for all of you in Jesus the Anointed” (1 Thes. 5:17).

Have you ever wondered what God’s will is for your life? Unless you’re that one weird guy who still lives in his mom’s basement and never leaves the house, then you’d probably say yes. Even that weird guy would probably say yes.

What is God’s will for your life? I can’t tell you everything, but I can tell you one thing. God’s will for you is that you give thanks. Be grateful.

Give thanks in everything, as one translation puts it. Not FOR everything, because not everything in your life that happens to you is good. You don’t give thanks for getting fired or totaling your car, but you can still give thanks in those circumstances.

Give thanks for the little things, like waking up this morning. For the sun shining on your way to work. For you still having a job. For having a working vehicle.

One thing I’ve learned is it’s better to give thanks specifically. Don’t be like me at the end of the day and say something like, “God, thank you for everything You’ve done for me in the last 24 hours.”

God knows what He did, but when you remember what He did, it changes your perspective. As I’ve quoted before, “Gratitude makes what you have enough.” When you’re thankful, you forget about how much you don’t have and realize that you have everything you need.

I love what I heard recently. If you have God and everything else, you don’t have anymore than if you had God and nothing else. God is enough.

So give thanks. Right now, I’m giving thanks for my mentally disturbed feline who likes to curl up in my lap and rub her face against the corner of my iPad. I’m thankful for a roof over my head, a comfy chair, and for warmth on a very cold night.

Baby, It’s Cold Outside

I know you northerners always get a kick out of us southerners complaining about how cold it is when it’s 40 degrees outside. Well, guess what. It really is cold outside. As in 24, headed for a low of 16. That’s cold for just about anybody, right?

I do love cold weather, as long as I get to enjoy it from inside a heated house. I even love snow as long as I don’t have to drive in it. Or better yet, drive amongst other people who don’t know how to drive in it.

But back to it being cold. It’s cold. Like winter cold. And it’s not even Thanksgiving. Where’s Al Gore and his global warming when you really need it? I’d settle for some Tennessee warming.

Anyway, it’s Monday and Monday is almost over. And I survived. I woke up this morning and God was still on His throne and that happy ending in the book of Revelations still holds true. Jesus wins. Spoiler alert.

Once again, I’ll be a broken record and say that I really and truly am blessed. That will never get old for me. Or at least I hope not.

Promises, Promises

“Protect me, God, for the only safety I know is found in the moments I seek You.
I told You, Eternal One, “You are my Lord,
    for the only good I know in this world is found in You alone” (Psalm 16:1-2)

That’s something I need to remember. Especially in these days when everything seems so unpredictable and topsy-turvy and nothing seems settled, when the only constant in this world seems to be that change is inevitable.

When I was a kid, my world seemed a lot more secure. People never lost jobs, friends were always healthy and vital, and all my cousins and uncles and aunts and grandparents were always around for holidays and special occasions. It seemed to me that all my friends’ parents stayed married and everybody I knew had a happy family.

But these days, that’s not the case. I’ve said goodbye to too many loved ones already. I’ve had my fair share of job losses. I’ve even lost one or two friends. Too many people I know have gone through divorces and unhappy homes.

But the promises of God are secure. Absolutely secure. As in “good as done” secure. God’s promises are so sure that we can believe in His future for us and live that reality now. We can speak of the future promises in the present tense even when we can’t see them yet.

That’s worth celebrating. No matter what happens tomorrow, good or bad, these words of God will not fail. Even if I fail, they will not. As the Bible says, even if we are faithless, He will remain faithful, for He cannot deny Himself. Even when my feelings and my thoughts tell me otherwise, God is true even when they lie. Always.

As I’ve heard it said before, it’s not about big faith in God, but faith in a big God, even if that faith is mustard-seed small. As my friend used to say, it’s a big world out there, but a bigger God.

 

 

 

 

 

 

My Occasional Soapbox Post Strikes Again

I have to admit something. I’m a little concerned about evangelical Christianity in America.

I hope I’m wrong about this, but it seems we’ve sold out. In order to get along with everybody and to be at peace, we have compromised our convictions and doctrines in order not to be offensive. We’ve come to the point where we believe that all lifestyles and beliefs are valid and true and where no one can ever say that anything anybody else says or does is wrong. At least not if we don’t want to be labeled as “judgmental” or “bigots” or “hate-mongers.”

From what I know about Christianity, the gospel itself is offensive. It’s scandalous. If we’re faithful to proclaim it and to strive to be conformed to the likeness of Christ, we will be rejected. And ridiculed. And persecuted. How do I know that? Because He Himself promised it would happen.

The Bible says that we apart from God love darkness and hate the light. We hate the truth and anything or anyone associated with it. It takes more than just convincing of our logic. It takes the love of God invading our hearts for us to be transformed.

I think part of the problem is that we interpret what the Bible says through the lenses of emotion or sexuality or politics. It should be the other way around. The truth is not politically correct and it isn’t always the popular opinion. In fact, many times, the truth will be in the minority.

I do believe in the Bible the same way orthodox believers have believed in it for centuries. My faith is the faith of the apostles and saints through the ages. That is Christianity. Anything else is not. You are free to believe and practice your belief however you choose, but if your faith has stepped outside of the boundaries of orthodox faith, you are believing in something other than the Christ of Christianity. I don’t say any of this out of pride or arrogance. In fact, I’m a fairly lousy Christian at times, saying one thing and living another. Or in my case, not really saying anything at all.

I still believe that Christians are called to love those who think and act differently, regardless of whether they ever change. Jesus loved those who opposed Him most vehemently, yet still proclaimed the truth boldly, calling a spade a spade. Jesus died for the ones who murdered Him.

Love is still the way to go, but not love that has no standards. That’s not love. That’s just permissiveness. God’s love says in effect, “I love you just the way you are right now, but I refuse to leave you that way. My love will make you everything I created you to be.”

As always, I’m just a ragamuffin out there telling other ragamuffins where to find the Bread of Life.

 

 

Perfect Timing

This appeared in my emails and I thought it could not have come at a better time. Not just for me, but possibly for some of you as well:

“God knows how to give you a life far greater than the one you planned.

No matter where you find yourself right now, or where you have come from, you can trust that the plans God has for you are so much better than anything you could have ever thought of.

The word tells us that our minds can not conceive of the plans he has in store for us.

Honestly, I find this very comforting because so many times it seems I mess everything up.

Praise God for his redemption and commitment to bring us to a better life!

Trust that The One who loved you and gave himself for you wants the very best for you in every way – even better than the plans you have for yourself” (Neil Vermillion).

I hope this speaks to you like it did to me. May you find that life God has planned for you and live it to the brim.

Here I Raise My Ebenezer

Ok, I have to confess something. When I sang this as a kid, I always pictured the grumpy old man Scrooge who hated Christmas. Why would I want to life him up?

Now, I understand that an ebenezer is a kind of memorial stone. It’s a visible reminder of a time when God interceded on behalf of His people and brought deliverance.

I think it’s good to have an ebenezer handy for when times get tough and God seems so very far away. Maybe it’s a journal. Maybe it’s a family heirloom. Maybe it’s an actual stone from a place where you witnessed God’s care and provision firsthand.

We need these reminders because we are so forgetful, especially in the trials. It’s easy to look around and see only struggles and issues and problems and how everything seems to be going wrong. It’s hard to remember past the pain or to conjure up memories of good days.

The ebenezer is a kind of reminder that yes, God delivered you before and is certainly capable of doing it again. It’s a tangible witness to the mercy of God that met you when you needed it most.

I think even old Mr. Scrooge might have found his own ebenezer. Here’s hoping and praying you and I find ours.

Another One for When You Can’t Sleep

Are you having trouble sleeping? Are you tossing and turning long after you thought you’d be asleep? Do all your efforts at falling asleep only lead to you being more awake, not less?

This isn’t an ad for a mattress or a pillow. It’s not a commercial for a pill that helps you sleep without leaving you feeling groggy in the morning. This is where I give you a suggestion or two.

Maybe you can’t sleep for a reason. Maybe God’s putting someone or something on your mind that you need to pray for.

Search your mind. What’s the first thing that comes to your mind? Pray about it. Whose name comes first to your mind? Pray for that person.

And when you pray, thank God in advance like He’s already done the thing you prayed for. I’m not saying “name it, claim it.” What I am saying is that if God doesn’t answer your prayer like you wanted, it’s only because He has something better in mind.

Just a suggestion. I’m not saying you’ll sleep better, although you might after releasing your worry to God. I am saying that the whole pray without ceasing thing is a pretty goof idea.

PS My cat never has trouble falling asleep. Maybe I should take a few pointers from her.

At the End of Your Rope

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There’s a cliche that goes something like this: when you’re at the end of your rope, tie a knot in it and hang on. Apparently, according to various internet sources, this quote has been attributed to Franklin D. Roosevelt, Thomas Jefferson, and Abraham Lincoln. I’m a little skeptical about any of those actually having said that.

There is some truth to that. If it were me, I’d probably phrase it like this: when you come to the end of you, you come to the beginning of God and His mercies.

When you come to the point when you realize that you bring nothing to the table, that you really are poor in spirit (as the first Beatitude states), and that you don’t have it in you, then you can declare your declaration of dependence on God and find out how strong He really is.

There’s another cliche that may be overused but only because it’s true: you never know how much you have in God until He’s all that you have. Or something like that.

I think sometimes, God deliberately brings us to places where we are grossly inadequate to show how sufficient He really is. The whole notion of God never giving us more than we can handle? I don’t buy it. I think if God never gave us more than we could manage, we’d always maintain the illusion of self-sufficiency. And by the way, the verse doesn’t say God doesn’t give us more than we can handle. It says He never allows us to be tempted beyond what we’re able to bear. There’s a difference.

But once you’re at the end of your proverbial rope, you do find that it’s a good place to be because it’s there that you really and truly see God. It’s when you can find out how strong He is to save those who cry out in desperation to Him day and night. Especially if you’re one of those ones crying out.

I personally would rather be able to read someone else’s sob story and be able to say, “Lesson learned.” But if I’m honest, I know that some lessons are best learned in the dark and hard places and some of the sweetest experiences with God only come out of trials and tribulations.

 

Frustration

Technology is great. I love technology. When it works.

When it doesn’t, that is another story entirely. Sometimes I wonder if we’re not too tied up with technology to the point that if the power ever goes off, we’re in big trouble. But that is another topic for another day.

What do you do with frustrations? When your plans don’t quite go like you planned? When nothing goes according to plan?

The main question is this: do you see frustrations as obstacles in your path or opportunities for you to become a better person? Do you see them as a chance to develop your character as well as your faith?

I hate to say it, but I think some very un-Baptist thoughts when my laptop doesn’t cooperate. I easily get impatient instead of remembering to be grateful for the tech that didn’t exist 20 years ago.

The old saying is that you should never pray for patience unless you want to have what little patience you do have severely tested. That’s why God made technology.

Amen to that.

For When All the Lights Go Out

I experienced a little of this tonight. Literally. As in one moment I was watching yet another syndicated episode of Friends, and the next moment I was sitting in the dark. I think my exact words were, “Well, there’s that.”

It came out of nowhere. There was no reason for the power to go out. There was no storm outside or any excess of things plugged in. It was just a very random power outage.

Sometimes, life is like that. You may be going along, minding your own business when, just as suddenly, your lights go out. You lose a job. A loved one dies unexpectedly. A check bounces.

All of a sudden, you feel like you’re in total darkness. You can’t see to find your way out. You may even feel a bit of panic building up inside you.

In those moments, it’s like the old Corrie Ten Boom analogy. When you’re on a train going through a dark tunnel, you don’t automatically jump off the train as soon as it gets dark. You trust the conductor.

In the same way, the same God who has guided you all along in those well-lit places will get you through all those dark places, too. I’ve always heard the old cliche that there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel. I do know that when I can’t find that light or see my way, I can always trust the One who is leading me to get me where He wants me to be.