Overwhelmed

That’s the best and greatest gift you can give anyone is not anything that can be bought at a store or online. It’s not something you can wrap up in a pretty package with a bow on it. It’s not something sparkly or shiny or anything that lights up or makes sounds.

The greatest gift you can give anyone is the gift of Emmanuel, God with us, and you can only give as you have encountered the presence of the risen Christ in your own life. That doesn’t come by rushing around like crazy to all the stores in all the traffic, but by finding margin in your schedule to be alone and be still, savoring the gift of the Christ child.

I have my Christmas list like everyone else does, but honestly there’s nothing that I really need there. I can think of years past when I was dying to get a particular toy or computer game or gadget for Christmas only to grow tired of it a few weeks later. I can’t imagine how many of my Christmas gifts eventually got sold in garage sales or donated to Goodwill.

But the gift of Emmanuel is one that only grows dearer with each passing day. It only gets better and richer and deeper as the months and years go by. That’s probably the best example of regifting where you don’t have to feel guilty because this gift is meant to be given away just as God in Jesus freely gave Himself away for us.

Season’s Greetings?

A few years ago, it seemed like everybody was getting bent out of shape over retail workers not saying Merry Christmas to every customer. It was a thing.

Apparently, life was a lot easier then so that there weren’t more pressing issues or more dire problems to deal with other than people who may or may not know about the Christ of Christmas getting the semantics right.

Don’t get me wrong. I love hearing Merry Christmas. I sometimes even remember to say it. Sometimes I just say, “Have a good day” and then walk away wondering why I didn’t say Merry Christmas.

But I do think that believers have been known to expect lost people who don’t have a regenerated heart and mind to act saved when people who are supposed to be the ones who know Jesus are the most obnoxious and rude customers. There’s a reason why people at restaurants hate working on Sunday.

I still think that just possibly instead of expecting to hear Merry Christmas everywhere we go, we should instead exhibit the qualities of the Christ in Christmas. Maybe we need to be a little kinder or a little more patient. Perhaps instead of forcing someone to parrot Merry Christmas, we do our part to make their Christmas a little merrier by how we live out Jesus in front of them.

People might want to know Jesus if they saw Him lived out by the people who profess to know Him. They might want to follow Jesus if they saw a real difference in the lives of those who go to church every Sunday. What turns them off isn’t Jesus, but people who profess Jesus with their lips and deny Him by their lifestyle (thanks to Brennan Manning for that one).

Oh, and don’t get me started on the whole Xmas thing. By the way, you do know that X is also a Greek letter and can be used as an abbreviation for Christ, right? Just checkin’.

A Little Spurgeon

“DAILY PRAYER (BY SPURGEON)

Oh Lord Jesus, deepen in us our knowledge of you. You have made the first lines of your likeness upon our character; go on with this work of sacred art until we shall be like you in all respects. We wish that we had greater power in private prayer, that we were more often wrestling with the covenant angel. We long for the Word of God to be more sweet to us, more intensely precious—that we had a deeper hunger and thirst after it. Oh, that our knowledge of the truth was more clear and our grip of it more steadfast.
Teach us, oh Lord, to know the reason of the hope that is in us, and to be able to defend the faith against all objections. Plow deep in us, great Lord; and let the roots of your grace strike into the roots of our being, until it shall be no longer I who live, but “Christ that who in me.”
Amen.

VERSE OF THE DAY (COMMENTARY BY SPURGEON)

‘But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be the glory both now and to the day of eternity.’ (2 Peter 3:18)

There cannot be any grace at all except as we know Christ, and there can be no growth in grace except as we grow in our knowledge of Christ. We may always test whether we are growing by this question: Do I know more of Christ today than I did yesterday? Do I live nearer to Christ today than I did a little while ago? For increase in the knowledge of Christ is the evidence as well as the cause of true growth in grace.”

It’s hard to believe Charles Spurgeon was only 57 when he entered into glory. He did so much in his abbreviated lifetime, more so than what most do who live way longer. But this is an example of why he is the prince of preachers.

May these words go deep into your heart and soul and resonate as they remind you of the hope that is yours in Christ Jesus.

Christian Celebrity

“Christian perfection is not, and never can be, human perfection. Christian perfection is the perfection of a relationship with God that shows itself to be true even amid the seemingly unimportant aspects of human life. God’s purpose is not to perfect me to make me a trophy in His showcase; He is getting me to the place where He can use me. Let Him do what He wants” (Oswald Chambers, My Utmost for His Highest).

I heard something on a podcast that’s been living in my head rent-free ever since. Basically, we weren’t made to be famous. It’s not something that most of us can handle well. To put people on a pedestal because of the ability to sing or act or preach is contrary to what the gospel of Jesus Christ is all about.

One thing we do is immediately upon finding out someone believes in Jesus and can sing is to put them in front of a lot of people without any kind of discipleship or even finding out what they actually believe. The result is a whole myriad of trainwrecks of people who derailed morally or have deconstructed to the point where they no longer believe anything or have watered down the faith to the point that it’s basically meaningless.

We weren’t called to be famous. We were called to be faithful. Maybe what we need are less singers and actors and dancers and people on a stage with a spotlight and more people behind the scenes serving and washing feet. We need less Christian celebrities and more servants.

Hopefully, this is not a bashing session. I hope it’s to get us to the point where we don’t seek to elevate people to the place that only God deserves and in the process put tremendous pressure on them to somehow be all things to all people and be perfect instead of allowing them to be human.

I still remember one year how I commented one year that so many celebrities were passing away. One friend wisely commented that every day a hero passes and very few people know about it. The real heroes are the ones who often go unnoticed and unacclaimed because they’re not seeking attention but to make the world better. So many are doing the faithful work of faith in secret and are themselves unaware of the eternal impact they’ve made.

I love that people get a chance to represent Jesus well in front of a camera or a crowd, but better yet is a live of sacrifice that that leads to the words, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”

Advent Time Is Here

“Almighty God,
give us grace to cast away the works of darkness,
and put on the armor of light,
now in the time of this mortal life in which your Son Jesus Christ came to visit us in great humility;

that in the last day,
when he shall come again in his glorious majesty to judge both the living and the dead,
we may rise to the life immortal;

through him who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit,
one God,
now and for ever.

Amen.”

It’s Advent season again. That means that Christmas is 24 days away.

It seems like it was Christmas a year ago that I blinked and suddenly it was February. I blinked again and it was summer. I blinked again and it was October. One more blink and here we are. Basically, time flies.

It’s my favorite time of the year. Everything is decorated and Christmas music is blasting out of just about every speaker everywhere you go. Artists who normally don’t go near Jesus or Christianity are suddenly singing about the birth of the Messiah in a little town of Bethlehem and all those angels we have heard on high.

It’s a time when my family gets out all the vintage ornaments and decorations and all the memories come flooding back. I remember both my grandmothers, my uncles, and all those who won’t be here this Christmas, and for a little while I can see all their faces and remember their voices.

Plus, this is a yearly reminder that God really did break through into history and become a baby. I listen to my favorite Christmas song, Labor of Love, and hear the words that it was not a silent night and there was blood on the ground, but that the baby in Mary’s womb was the maker of the moon and the author of the faith that could make the mountains move.

That line still gives me good chills even now.

But it’s easy to focus on all the gifts I haven’t bought yet or all the decorating still undone. I can even jump ahead to how depressing it will be to take it all down for another year in a few weeks. But maybe if I slow down and savor the season, I can hear the wordless cries of the infant in the manger who will bear my sins on a cross one day. I can see in my mind the spotless lamb who will one day be the conquering Lion of Judah.

I can remember that the real reason for Christmas doesn’t end on December 25 or even January 6, but is alive and well all the days of the year, well into 2025 and beyond.

Pet Sitting Guru

Well, I don’t know if I’m a pet sitting guru or not, but I certainly got my share the last few days. I’ve been taking care of five dogs and four cats (and thankfully no other kinds of critters). It was hard work but worth it — and I have loved every minute of it.

I’m still a bit astonished that people trust me with their precious fur babies to look after them. I still wonder sometimes how I got to the point where people think I’m a mature responsible adult. Like when did that happen?

But I’m grateful. With Thanksgiving just past and this season of Advent starting, I can give thanks for opportunities to help out people who are traveling by providing a safe place for their pups and kitties. I make them feel at home by staying with them (sometimes overnight if needed) and making sure they get all their food and water and meds and treats and such.

It really is a blessing. This time, I’ve dealt with everything from a big ol’ dog that’s about the size of a small horse to a puppy with the energy of ten football players combined. They’re all so different with their own unique personalities. That’s what makes it so great.

I think all good things like this are truly a gift from God. I don’t take for granted any of it. I wouldn’t skip it even if it meant sleeping in a little later in the morning and having more free time. Seeing those contented puppy faces makes it all worth it.

Again, I’m grateful for this opportunity and hope there will be more in the future.

Why Thanksgiving?

This is another guest blog post of sorts. Basically, I liked the post that Dr. Mike Glenn, former pastor of Brentwood Baptist Church, wrote that I decided to share it with you. Here it is:

“The other day, my granddaughters were asking me why I hadn’t put up our family Christmas tree. “It’s not time yet,” I told them. “We have to have Thanksgiving first.”

‘Can’t we just skip Thanksgiving,’ they asked. I can’t blame them. They wanted to hurry up and get to presents under the tree along with all the Christmas candy and treats. Compared to all that, Thanksgiving is a little boring. After all, what do we do on Thanksgiving? We drive long distances and eat too much and then, we watch football on TV until we’re too tired to stay awake. Along the way, we trade stories with family and maybe, if we’re lucky, we can play a little touch football in the front yard. It’s pretty evident why most of us want to hurry up and get to Christmas.

What should we do on Thanksgiving? Well, we should give thanks. All of us should find a little time and space to thank God for all of His blessings during the previous year. We should remember that all of life is a gift. Every breath, every thought, every heartbeat is a gift from the Giver of Life Himself. We are always and forever in debt to His goodness.

Once, as Jesus was walking along the road, He was confronted by ten lepers who begged for Jesus to heal them. He told them to go show themselves to their priest and as they ran, they were healed. In the story, only one of the healed lepers returns to Jesus and says thanks. Here’s what makes that story interesting. When the man returns, Jesus tells him his faith has made him well.

Wait a minute? Weren’t all ten healed? Yes. Then why did Jesus say this man has been made well? What about the other nine? Is there a difference between being healed and being well?

Maybe. After all, there’s a difference between being forgiven and being restored. Being forgiven means we’re no longer responsible for repairing our transgression. Being restored means the relationship has been mended as it was before the transgression occurred.

Likewise, being healed means we’re no longer limited or held back by our woundedness. Being made well means we’re no longer held back and we’re celebrating a new level of understanding and commitment to Christ. The leper who returned rejoined his friends with a much deeper relationship with Jesus. He is, after all, the one who returned to speak to Jesus and the one who heard Jesus speak to him.

The others were healed. He was made well.

Giving thanks is hard. It puts us in a vulnerable position. We have to admit we’re receiving something we didn’t earn and don’t deserve. Being grateful means we are now obligated to respond to God’s goodness by being good ourselves – to God and each other. Maybe that’s why we want to skip Thanksgiving and move on to Christmas.

Thanksgiving is hard, but it’s only in thanksgiving that we’re made well – whole and complete. Skipping thanksgiving is more than just moving on to Christmas. It’s missing a vital element of life itself – the moment we get to talk to Jesus and hear Jesus talk to us.

There’s a difference between being healed and being well. Don’t miss it by skipping Thanksgiving.

The blog is a little shorter this week. I’ll give you a few minutes to be thankful. Be well. Be thankful. Happy Thanksgiving.”

It’s Christmas Music Season

My favorite time of the year has officially begun. One of the many reasons for Advent and Christmas being the best is because of all the great music (including the album shown above) that I love to revisit every year around this time.

I get nostalgic around the middle of November, and I’m drawn to the music that my parents and grandparents have loved. I go back to those old records I listened to when I was little and couldn’t wait for Santa to show up.

I really believe that music is the closest thing to time travel that we have. It’s amazing how certain songs can conjure up memories and images from the recesses of your mind and almost bring them back to life again. I can almost see the faces and hear the conversations and smell the bread baking in the oven.

The last two years, I have been tracking down all the old records from way back when, especially those classic Christmas recordings of yore. As much as I like some of the new music (or more accurately, a small fraction of it), I yearn for the tried and true acts like Nat King Cole, Bing Crosby, Ella Fitzgerald, and so many others who set the standards and recorded the definitive versions of so many Christmas songs that we all know and love.

So from now until possibly the middle of January, I will be revisiting my Christmas collection (and adding to it whenever I get the chance). Throw in a peppermint mocha and a comfy chair and I am a very happy dude.

Gratitude on Thanksgiving Eve

I know it’s not officially a thing, but Happy Thanksgiving Eve, everyone! I figure if Christmas can have a Christmas Eve, then Thanksgiving should as well. It’s time Turkey Day got some love after years of being overshadowed by all the glitz and glamor of Christmas.

But on this particular Thanksgiving, I want to take time to focus on gratitude. Even as my temp job came to an end yesterday, I am still thankful. I know that people out there around the world would love to have one of my bad days where I still slept in a warm bed with a roof over my head and a full stomach. They’d love to have access to clean drinkable water while I can’t decide between brands of sparking water.

It’s impossible to give thanks and be envious or entitled in the same breath. You can’t actually do both. You will either live in a world of resentment and bitterness over what you don’t have that you think you deserve, or you will live in a world where anything good is a gift from God not to be taken for granted.

If I’m honest, I know what I am apart from the grace of God. I know I deserve nothing good from the hand of God. I also know I have been the recipient of grace upon grace. Even the next breath is a gift that I don’t deserve but that I will receive gladly. That is not me beating myself up. It’s me admitting that I am a member of the human race that is fallen and is unable to save itself and needs Jesus.

If I took the time to list out all the gifts I’m grateful for from the biggest to the smallest, I imagine I could spend the rest of my life writing it all down. I could even take the rest of eternity coming up with more reasons for gratitude. I think that even forever in heaven all our thanks will fall short of naming all the goodness of God to us or uncovering all that He truly is.

But I can say thank you. I can live in gratitude. I can remember that people all over the world would love to have my bad days that would be better than their best days. I can pray for them and pray that God can use me and my little gifts possibly to make an impact in their world as I continue to pour out thanksgiving.

Community Makes God Visible

This is a guest post from the late legendary Henri Nouwen:

“Nothing is sweet or easy about community. Community is a fellowship of people who do not hide their joys and sorrows but make them visible to each other as a gesture of hope.

In community we say: ‘Life is full of gains and losses, joys and sorrows, ups and downs—but we do not have to live it alone. We want to drink our cup together and thus celebrate the truth that the wounds of our individual lives, which seem intolerable when lived alone, become sources of healing when we live them as part of a fellowship of mutual care.’

Community is like a large mosaic. Each little piece seems so insignificant. One piece is bright red, another cold blue or dull green, another warm purple, another sharp yellow, another shining gold. Some look precious, others ordinary. Some look valuable, others worthless. Some look gaudy, others delicate. We can do little with them as individual stones except compare them and judge their beauty and value. When, however, all these little stones are brought together in one big mosaic, portraying the face of Christ, who would ever question the importance of any one of them? If one of them, even the least spectacular one, is missing, the face is incomplete. Together in the one mosaic, each little stone is indispensable and makes a unique contribution to the glory of God. That’s community, a fellowship of little people who together make God visible in the world.”