How to Pray

“The world is full of so-called prayer warriors who are prayer-ignorant. They’re full of formulas and programs and advice, peddling techniques for getting what you want from God. Don’t fall for that nonsense. This is your Father you are dealing with, and he knows better than you what you need. With a God like this loving you, you can pray very simply. Like this:

Our Father in heaven,
Reveal who you are.
Set the world right;
Do what’s best—
as above, so below.
Keep us alive with three square meals.
Keep us forgiven with you and forgiving others.
Keep us safe from ourselves and the Devil.
You’re in charge!
You can do anything you want!
You’re ablaze in beauty!
Yes. Yes. Yes” (Matthew 6:7-13, The Message).

Lately, I find myself praying through the Lord’s Prayer quite a bit, especially when I can’t think of anything to pray on my own. It’s easy to pray through a line at a time and whatever comes to mind next. For example, I might pray “Our Father in heaven, above all that goes on here on earth, completely sovereign over all things yet intimately concerned with all my needs . . . “

You can pray through the entire passage like that. Sometimes, God will bring to mind another verse, like God working all things together for good in the place where you pray for God’s will to be done. Sometimes, I just pray through the Lord’s Prayer without any additional commentary.

It’s not about getting it perfect. I think God hears me just the same when the words flow as when I stumble all over myself trying to pray. The Bible says that God hears even when all I’ve got are groans and sighs too deep for words. Besides, it’s not like I’m telling God what He doesn’t already know.

I think that prayer isn’t giving God new information, but helping me see it from His perspective. I’m taking it to God, and sometimes it changes my circumstances, and other times it changes me in the middle of my circumstances.

I’d like to be able to pray for hours and hours, but I think God’s okay with me offering up short prayers throughout the day. I think the idea is to keep the line of communication open and always have a mindfulness of God wherever I am and whatever I’m doing.

Like Whatever

These are so great. They’re a sampling of actual writings from high school students, almost none of which will probably grow up to be the next Jane Austen or Earnest Hemingway. Then again, I probably wrote some clunkers in my time as well.

There is no great spiritual analogy here. Just maybe some similes and metaphors to avoid in your writing if at all possible. But I think it’s okay to laugh at these.

Just Enough

Do you sometimes feel that you are either too much or not enough for some people? Do you have days when your words come out all wrong and you think back on prior conversations earlier in the day and cringe a bit? I do sometimes. I’m sure we all do at some point.

But thankfully God is always enough. His grace. His daily bread. Always enough. Sometimes it’s just enough to keep you going. Sometimes, it’s a super abundance far beyond anything you were expecting or anticipating. But God is always enough.

I’m also thankful that in Jesus, I am enough. Because of what He did for me, I am enough. I don’t have to prove myself to anybody or be more or less for people in order to gain their approval and validate my existence. I am enough.

The old saying goes that when the devil reminds you of your past, remind him of his future. I’d also say remind yourself of your future. It’s glorious. It’s better than you and I could ever envision or dream. It will make you forget all those times and all those people who tried to make you feel less than.

In the mean time, remember that God is always, always, always enough. Always.

Just a Little Bit of Spurgeon

“DAILY PRAYER (BY SPURGEON)
Blessed be your name God of all grace, you have revealed yourself to us, you have brought your life to our death and made us alive in you; you have brought your light to our blindness, and made us to behold you; and now you are not only the greatest source of joy to our spirit, but you are all our joy—we have none apart from you. Whatever comfort we find in creation, we know it is but fickle; and while it is there, it comes from you; for all these things are empty, and vain, and void without you. Whom have we in heaven but you, and there is none upon earth that we desire beside you!
Amen.
“VERSE OF THE DAY (COMMENTARY BY SPURGEON)“Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!” (Philippians 4:4) In the first place, this is a very delightful thing. What a gracious God we serve, who makes delight to be a duty and who commands us to rejoice. Should we not at once be obedient to such a command as this? We should be cheerful—more than that, we should be thankful, and we should rejoice.This word, “rejoice,” is not only joy once, but it is joy over again, rejoice! We are to joy, and then we are to re-joy. We are to chew the cud of delight—we are to roll the dainty morsel under our tongue till we get the very essence out of it.”

I think Charles Spurgeon is one of my favorite preachers/authors. Even though he passed away over 130 years ago, his legacy still lives on. You can go and subscribe to receive a daily email with one of his prayers and a short commentary on a verse or two. Plus, you get to pray for a different unreached people group every week.

But back to Spurgeon. There’s a reason why he’s called the Prince of Preachers. We have so many of his sermons recorded in print for posterity. Unfortunately, the technology didn’t exist back then to be able to hear his actual preaching, but maybe somebody one day will figure out how to do an AI approximation of his voice. Or maybe not.

Here’s where you can go to receive daily emails from Spurgeon (or more accurately, from people who like Spurgeon a lot and keep his memory alive by posting his insights on a daily basis). Enjoy!

Jesus Is Lord

“Paul often referred to himself as a ‘slave’ of Jesus Christ. Because we’ve grown up in an American democracy, few of us understand the radical nature of Paul’s description.

Paul was literally saying that Jesus bought him. In His death and resurrection, Jesus paid for Paul. Jesus bought his career, desires, dreams, talents—his total life!

Paul had no will of his own, no dreams of his own. They all belonged to Jesus.

Christians often exclaim ‘Jesus is Lord!’ without much thought to what we’re actually saying. When we say this, we’re saying: ‘Jesus owns us. He’s the boss.’

We’re committed to doing WHAT Jesus says to do, WHEN He says to do it, the WAY He says to do it.

Our lives are not our own. We’ve been bought with a price—a terrible, unspeakable price. And how we live now tells the world exactly what we think of Jesus and His death for us” (Mike Glenn).

I sometimes think that if we truly meant what we said when we proclaim that Jesus is Lord, our lives would look totally different. At least mine would.

Can I live in open sin and truthfully say that Jesus is Lord? No.

Can I be permissive about what the Bible forbids and say that Jesus is Lord? No.

Can I call my own shots and ask God to bless what I’ve already decided to do and still claim that Jesus is Lord? Absolutely not.

Can I sing about the joy of the Lord and then live with a sour face and a sad disposition because my true greatest joy is in something other than God that can be taken away, then shout at the top of my lungs that Jesus is Lord? No way.

If Jesus is my Lord, then I have no rights. What He says, goes. Period. I submit to His will 100%. Otherwise, I’m just paying lip service and I am still my own lord. Not Jesus.

The irony of the Bible is that true freedom isn’t doing what you want because then you become a slave to your whims and desires. True freedom comes from being a slave to Jesus and finding your true self in the process. You’re not beholden to anything or anyone who doesn’t have your best interests at heart.

May we live like Jesus as Lord as often as we say Jesus is Lord. Then more people will want to know Jesus as Savior and Lord.

Faithful to Your Call

“If you live a life of watching and waiting, you will know what kind of call you have. You are not called to solve every problem in the world. Jesus was not called to go all over the world. He was called to be faithful to his own people. Every human being has a call. I work with mentally handicapped people. Sometimes I spend hours with one person, and we barely speak. Does that help people in Bosnia, does that help people in Northern Ireland, does it help people in Somalia? I don’t know, but I think it does. I think that when I am faithful to one person who is given to me, when I am convinced that’s my vocation, then I am doing more than when I am anxiously trying to put out all the fires all over the world. And that gives me peace” (Henri Nouwen).

Sometimes, the greatest gift you can give to the world is to be faithful to your call right where you are. You can do your job well. You can raise your family well. You can serve and minister to those in your small circle where you live, work, and play.

God didn’t call you to fix every problem and right every wrong. He called you to be faithful in a little, so He can trust you with more. He’s called you to be faithful with five talents, so that He can one day trust you with ten.

Sometimes, faithfulness looks a lot like showing up every single day. It looks a lot like not giving up, despite nothing ever seeming to change and the future still looking so far away. But if you show up and stay prayed up, then God will show up. God can take your meager little offerings, bless them, and multiply them to touch the lives of so many more people than you ever could have imagined.

But it all starts in being faithful with your two fishes and five loaves. It starts with being faithful with your small mustard seed. And the beautiful part is that it’s never too late to start.

Come On, Fall!

All the summer lovers might want to skip this one. This is your trigger alert: I’m ready for fall.

I don’t want fall tomorrow. That would be weird (and very unseasonal). But I do want fall to start on September 21. And I mean right on September 21. Not a day late, do you hear?

I’ve enjoyed my two-week trial subscription to summer, but I don’t think I’ll keep it, thank you very much. I’ve already sweated a gallon and it’s not even to the really hot part of summer. Plus, I think I’ve already been bitten and stung more than I like — and for me, once is enough.

There are so many things I love that come with fall. Two of my favorite holidays (plus Christmas, even though it’s technically in winter but might as well be fall since true winter doesn’t arrive in Tennessee until mid-January).

But I can live with summer. I figure all the hot sticky weather will help me learn to appreciate the cooler crisp temperatures of autumn more. Plus, I can wear a shirt all day without having to peel it off at the end of the day.

I am thankful God made four seasons. I’m trying to learn to love them all, though both winter and summer try my patience at times. I understand that each season plays a part in the cycle of life of birth and death, decay and renewal.

But fall also has pumpkin spice and flannel. Those are two of my favorites. So there’s that.

It’s a Beautiful Day

If you let it, all the bad news coming from everywhere can be overwhelming. If you choose to get your information from the news outlet of your choice, you will think that the whole world is headed to hell in a hand-basket.

But there’s a freedom that comes when you learn to let go of what you can’t control. There’s a beauty that comes from surrendering what you were never meant to bear in the first place. It never was your job to fix every wrong and to right every injustice. That has always been God’s job.

Your job is to trust and obey. Part of that obedience and trust comes in leaving to God what belongs to God and not to you. If you try to take on the weight of the world and all its myriad problems, it will crush you. But if you leave it in the nail-scarred hands, it will free you.

It also helps to know that while the middle of the story looks bad, the end of the story has never been in doubt. You can look to the last pages of the Bible to see that. There will be no more wars or rumors of war. No more death or disease. No more hatred and animosity.

There’s a wedding and a feast coming. And you’re invited. And, as C. S. Lewis put it in the last Narnia book, The Last Battle, this life will have only been the preface to the real story of heaven and beyond, where each chapter is better than the one before and where the story has a happy ending that never truly ends.

Awed by God’s Glory

“The ache of life heals when we are awed by God. 

Wherever the ache of life meets more of the awe of God, we are more healed.
More than any other emotion, what heals us is the awe of God. 

And what is awe really but the glory of God? 
That’s what the research undeniably indicates: God’s glory undeniably HEALS us. 
Our story finds healing where we’re awed by God’s glory. 

If you want to heal more of the losses in your life, make it your way of life to get outside every day to hear what God means to tell you: ‘The heavens are telling the glory of God’ [Psalm 19:1].

That means? That means God sings close over us with spread of sky, God stuns and awes with painted sunrises, God unravels stress with His choreographic dance of stars, God enfolds us everywhere in surround sound: ‘Glory, glory, glory, I am glory and I fill everything with glory so why fill with worry?’

When the heart is full of trouble, step outside to see that the whole earth isn’t only full of trouble, but ultimately is full of His glory.

Step outside and watch the Maker of clouds overhead, lift the clouds within. 

He who breaks the clouds can heal our heartbreak, and the Maker of a million stars can heal every kind of broken heart. 

The river winds on and unknots a tangle of worries, and the grasses surrender and bend in the wind so they don’t break, and ‘God is a sun that never sets… As the air surrounds you, even so does the mercy of your Lord,’ writes Charles Spurgeon, and there is time to look out, to look up, to breathe glory deep into the lungs, and to feel it happen: more healing written into our wounds and our losses. 

The way to navigate loss is to lose all that distracts from the glory of God.

Glory heals and beauty binds up and awe awakens us to God here, right here. 

#TheBrokenWay#TheWayOfAbundance#1000Gifts” (Ann Voskamp).

I think I’m just gonna leave this right here. I think it says it all.

Rest

“Be present, O merciful God, and protect us through the hours of this night, so that we who are wearied by the changes and chances of this life may rest in your eternal changelessness; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen” (The Book of Common Prayer).

So much of this life is chaotic and unpredictable. So many of us wake up not knowing what the day will bring, hoping it will be good but fearing the worst. Things can change so very suddenly.

I’m thankful for a changeless God who remains the same through all our days. I don’t have to wonder if the God of tomorrow will be as good to be as the God of today. I know that He is the same yesterday, today, and forever.

That’s a comfort in these times where it seems almost nothing is guaranteed beyond today. So much of what I thought would last hasn’t. So many of the people I’ve grown accustomed to have gone away — either moved away or passed away.

But God is just as faithful as He was in the days of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. He’s just as faithful as He will be 1000 years from now. That’s the reason I can lay my head on my pillow at night and rest.